Jesus said, "Truly I tell you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or
children or fields, for my sake and for the sake of the good news, who will not receive a hundredfold now in
this age
--
houses, brothers and sisters, mothers and children, and fields, with persecutions
--
and in the age
to come eternal life.
"
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Mark 10:29-30
December 28,2004
We chose the above to be read at our wedding, and we reflect on it again as we celebrate
our fIrst Christmas as parents of two beautiful girls. For both of us, the decision to go to Peru set
our feet on a path that led to our family being together.
We and our daughters became a family on the fIrst of June, 2004. That was the day when,
after two years of waiting, we met our daughters Cindy and Rosa in Guatemala City. We arrived
home in New York a week later, and the last seven months have been a whirlwind of introducing
the girls to their new home, friends, relatives, and culture.
We thank God not only for the presence of our wonderful children, but also for the support
we have received from our friends. family and community. In the fIrst summer. our extended
Marykrioll community welcomed them with love and made them feel at home. In the fall, Cindy
started kindergarten and we saw her take to it like a fIsh to water. As I write this a few days
after Christmas, the girls are eagerly awaiting their next chance to play in the snow at their
grandparents' house.
Cindy is a very beautiful, outgoing six-year-old who loves to draw and is making
impressive progress in learning English. It gives us enormous pleasure to see how quickly she is
adapting and learning new things, and we delight in seeing her approach life with gusto. Rosa is
the kind of three-year-old that people fawn over, with curly hair and an irresistible smile. She
loves to play-act with her sister, and loves to read with her dad. We know ourselves to be highly
blessed, and we are happy in ways we never know existed before.
Of course, we are also a little overwhelmed by instant parenthood, but we have
reorganized our life into a pattern that works for now. Janice works two days a week at the
Pawling Animal Clinic, a job she likes very much. Chris continues to manage the computer
networks for Maryknoll Lay Missioners's offIces in Ossining. When the girls first arrived he went
on part-time paternity leave, but that is ending now. One of our blessings is a good friend who
runs a family day care business, so Rosa has a great group of little friends to play with for the
two days that we both work. We moved out of our idyllic cottage on the Maryknoll grounds, and
we now have an apartment in town, walking distance from the library and grocery store. Chris
can still walk or bicycle to work.
Since their arrival, the girls have spent a lot of time getting to know Chris's side of the
family here on the East coast, including their delighted grandparents. At Thanksgiving we
traveled to Seattle to introduce the girls to Janice's family, a wonderful week of reunions and
celebrations. Cindy is already interested in returning to Guatemala for a visit, and we have
promised her "some day." To live and work as missioners in the developing world remains a
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